I have a feeling this is going to turn into a confessions blog. I have one upcoming guest confession, and I think we're ready to hop on that train, but first, I'm gonna tell you about my weekend.
This weekend was a good friend's birthday, and his best buddy was in town for the weekend from out of state. As of lately, I've really been focusing on trying to be slutty. I had been hanging out with the boys all weekend, as per usual. We played some beach volleyball, drank some beers, talked about who we would want to have sex with in politics, you know. Funny enough, the popular answer for them was B(h)illary Clinton. I was impressed with this, and it was also refreshing to hear that guys would sleep with anything for power, or better yet, a good story. In fact, they took the "good story" reasoning to a new level, bringing Tipper Gore and Condi Rice into the equation. The convo went a step further when one of the boys started talking about one of MY past hookups (who's also a good friend of theirs). Sometimes, I think that they either forget I'm female or they just don't care. As it turns out, he once slept with a midget for the story. Now while I would like to think that this is awesome, it still turned my stomach a bit. We didn't have sex (evidence of a failed attempt at being slutty), but I still didn't really want to hear about midget sex.
Anyway, later in the night on Saturday (day two of shitfaced weekend birthday bash), after a good number of cocktails, I was discussing promiscuity with the birthday boy. He's unique in the sense that he's a guy and he has no real interest in sleeping with random girls. I find this really interesting, and that night we discussed how we both wished we were just a bit sluttier. We essentially agreed that while it would be fun, neither of us could really do it. Probably less than ten minutes later, I approached his best friend (the one from outta town) at the bar and started chatting. I'm really not a naturally flirty person, so I really have to try unless I'm totally plastered. I'm not sure why I decided to do it right after that convo, since we had been hanging out since like 11 am drinking, but I did. Anyway, we chatted for a while in that bar and then eventually went to a new one, after witnessing the tail-end of a stabbing in front of one bar. I'm getting better at eye contact, but it can be intense. Long story (not so) short, he hinted a few times at the fact that he was not excited about sleeping on the floor, and I pretty much shut him down. I totally cannot deal with these direct comments, obviously, so I failed. At the time, I thought that it would be too weird to hook up with this neighbor's best bud (especially after the promiscuity convo earlier) and also that if I did in fact have another little sleepover, I would have then hooked up with BOTH neighbor's best friends. Now I don't know what y'all think, but this seemed pretty slutty to me. Especially since both of them will be with us in Vegas on New Year's. Maybe I can get them a lil' rrrruunnnnkkkk and have a threesome. Ha, can you imagine how epic of a story that would be for this bloggedy!?
Things I've learned this weekend:
1. You can hypnotize people with eye contact, and get whatever you want.
2. When you hang out with just boys, you automatically win. You just have to claim your prize.
3. My favorite signal is touching. Even something as easy as touching my arm, when done correctly, kinda seals the deal for me.
I think it's time to set some goals:
I have one weekend left for birthday sex. Next weekend is my other neighbor's birthday, and I think we're doing a lil' tailgate party in Pasadena. My sleepover friend is probs gonna be there, (yes, the midget sex one, but I'm just gonna ignore that) so it's officially on.
I see a couple potential issues with this.
1. Mutual grounds: I have a really hard time even making out with someone in public, like outside of a bar or anything, so not having my own house/room could potentially be an issue.
2. Alcohol consumption: While I don't doubt that we will be drinking, someone has to drive home eventually. I might be able to get out of this one, but not without some dramz. Point being, I'm gonna need to be pretty rruuunnkk.
I will keep y'all posted...
On that note, I leave you with a recent post on Texts From Last Night:
(404): I don't even remember his name...I'm just gonna save it as birthday sex
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Monday, September 28, 2009
Plan B
So Plan B typically refers to the morning after pill. I'm going to devise a Plan A.
I think getting on birth control is the first step to being slutty. Granted, you could be slutty without being on bc, but that would have to end when you got preggers or died of AIDs. I want to be inspired. If pregnancy (my biggest fear) can be mostly prevented, I think this will help me relax and drink more, you know.
I watched some common signs of sluttiness this weekend and here are some common ideas:
1. Making out on the dancefloor: Not only do you have to be pretty intoxicated to do this, but you'd pretty much have to have no shame, since everyone can and will watch. This is all in public, so just imagine what happens next.
2. You're hanging out with some guy. You realize that he is seeing someone because he CALLS her and she shows up while you guys were hanging out. This may seem like an easily resolved situation, but it can get pretty trashy. Instead of leaving, you choose to compete with the girlfriend...guess who wins. I watched this happen a few weeks ago.
3. You flash someone for a shot. Okay, so maybe this wasn't necessarily on purpose, but that's even better.
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I think getting on birth control is the first step to being slutty. Granted, you could be slutty without being on bc, but that would have to end when you got preggers or died of AIDs. I want to be inspired. If pregnancy (my biggest fear) can be mostly prevented, I think this will help me relax and drink more, you know.
I watched some common signs of sluttiness this weekend and here are some common ideas:
1. Making out on the dancefloor: Not only do you have to be pretty intoxicated to do this, but you'd pretty much have to have no shame, since everyone can and will watch. This is all in public, so just imagine what happens next.
2. You're hanging out with some guy. You realize that he is seeing someone because he CALLS her and she shows up while you guys were hanging out. This may seem like an easily resolved situation, but it can get pretty trashy. Instead of leaving, you choose to compete with the girlfriend...guess who wins. I watched this happen a few weeks ago.
3. You flash someone for a shot. Okay, so maybe this wasn't necessarily on purpose, but that's even better.
If you would like to guest post or contribute to this blog, comment or e-mail me at wishiwasslutty@gmail.com
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Unsolicited Tips For Happy Living
Secretly, and lately, not so secretly, I've been wishing I was slutty. It would be great to just go to a bar and be totally fine with going home with someone new every weekend. Scratch that, what about every night? I don't know if I am condoning this behavior, just saying it could be fun.
Here are some tips I've gathered from others on how to be slutty:
1. Be the last girl at the bar. Your looks & personality matter less and less the more you (or your potential hook-up) drink. Also, once the lights go on true personalities tend to shine, meaning people quickly realize their search for "companionship" is about to end.
2. Drink heavily. I think this pretty much goes without saying. If you have particularly high or misplaced standards, there is a slight chance that they could disappear for a night, if you "get lucky".
3. Flirt with not only your potential love interest, but all of his friends. This way the guy will notice that he needs to act soon, or if he doesn't, then you may have multiple options. Do I hear threesome?
4. Don't talk to other girls. At the end of the day, where will it get you? As they say on all good reality show competitions, "I'm not here to make friends". Guess what, they're right. If you want to make friends, go to a kickboxing class or bowling alley instead of a bar, I'm sure you'll meet some winners.
5. Keep your eyes (and hands) on the prize. If you're constantly touching someone, appropriately or innapropriately, you're constantly reminding them that you'd hit it. Gotta keep 'em in check yo.
I hope you thoroughly enjoyed these tips for happy living. Be sure to keep us posted with your success stories.
Here are some tips I've gathered from others on how to be slutty:
1. Be the last girl at the bar. Your looks & personality matter less and less the more you (or your potential hook-up) drink. Also, once the lights go on true personalities tend to shine, meaning people quickly realize their search for "companionship" is about to end.
2. Drink heavily. I think this pretty much goes without saying. If you have particularly high or misplaced standards, there is a slight chance that they could disappear for a night, if you "get lucky".
3. Flirt with not only your potential love interest, but all of his friends. This way the guy will notice that he needs to act soon, or if he doesn't, then you may have multiple options. Do I hear threesome?
4. Don't talk to other girls. At the end of the day, where will it get you? As they say on all good reality show competitions, "I'm not here to make friends". Guess what, they're right. If you want to make friends, go to a kickboxing class or bowling alley instead of a bar, I'm sure you'll meet some winners.
5. Keep your eyes (and hands) on the prize. If you're constantly touching someone, appropriately or innapropriately, you're constantly reminding them that you'd hit it. Gotta keep 'em in check yo.
I hope you thoroughly enjoyed these tips for happy living. Be sure to keep us posted with your success stories.
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